So I haven’t been on here in a while. But lately I’ve been really struggling. So I’m back in hopes that anyone can help me.
We have still been trying to get pregnant. And still no luck. It has been over a year. Anyone who has had a miscarriage and then gotten pregnant again, did you do anything special? Or just anyone in general who has been pregnant, what did you do? I’m just so ready and I’m to the point that I feel like I’m never going to get there.
A lot of people just say “It’s God’s timing” and all that but I’m having a hard time with that as I watch other people’s situations. Everyone seems to be having such an easy time. Left and right, a new person announcing their pregnancy every day. And I also read a lot that God wouldn’t put you through anything you can’t handle and that everything happens for a reason. But I just can’t seem to understand why I’m being put through this. I struggle enough with my previous lost pregnancies. But then not being able to get pregnant is just another terrible thing. For a person who wants kids so badly, to be having such a hard time, WHY? And I am having a hard time believing that I can handle much more.
I honestly just feel like my life is at a hault right now. We are ready for kids and I feel like it’s all I can think about. I can’t continue on with life with such a huge part missing. Kids.
And yes everyone likes to give the great advice that ” maybe if you just don’t think about it, it will happen.” Well for anyone that is in similar shoes, you know that it’s just not that easy!!! Please anyone help. I’ll take all the advice I can get.